January 25, 2010
I’ve got that on-top-of-the-world feeling tonight, having had a long and awesome day that gave me a renewed sense of happiness with my current place, in life, space, and time. Here it is almost 11:00pm and I’m buzzing with energy.
Just left my neighborhood’s maarouf–the exact nature of which is up for debate. Some told me today that a maarouf is charity, an event at which everyone eats their fill and then takes the leftovers home. The dish this time was a sort of soup called orqimn, chock full of just about every dried thing I’ve ever seen: peas, lentils, rice, wheat, barley, chickpeas, fava beans, white beans, corn, and possibly flax seed along with something else I don’t know… and then, sheep’s shins and feet… delicious except for the “meat”! Others insisted a maarouf’s importance lies in its qualities as a tradition, a bit of long-time culture. In reality, it comes off as a wonderful gathering of women (or as at my last one, men) and in this instance, as a sort of neighborhood prayer-and-pep rally. I’m so happy to have been able to spend the whole day hanging out with the women, from 11:00am until 11:00pm.
Other awesome random bits:
Towards the end, when you’d have thought it would wind down, the remaining 13 women busted out a bucket, a tub, and a large metal platter and spoons and started haoushing up a storm–playing and singing their songs, that is.
Some of us took an afternoon break to go have an English class, which went well. Today I talked about question words and learned a bit myself, about maaroufs.
I was excited to have the excuse of taking some of the orqimn soup over to my host mom’s house to make a visit to her, and it turned out to be awesome too. She was happy to get the soup and she rewarded me with my first bit of her home-made amlou! This stuff is amazing, ground almonds mixed with argan oil. THE hot commodity of the Souss region. So exciting, I really can’t say quite how exciting. To get some of Naima’s amlou! It makes me feel a little more like family! I sat with her and her two sons for quite a while, playing with them a little and chatting with her some. Highly enjoyable. Eventually it was late enough I thought I should get home, so I said goodnight.
I thought the party over in my ‘hood would be over, but was I wrong! That’s when I sat down again and enjoyed a huge handful of cookies, two glasses of just about the sweetest tea I’ve ever had in my life (I felt like I could feel it oozing through my veins… I thought I might almost succomb then and there to the most intense sugar coma of my life…), some more roasted wheat (like pop corn, but with wheat grains!), and the grand chatter and singing of the women.
And to top it off, the moon is bright, the stars are out, and the clouds are scudding through the moonbeams ahead of a surprisingly brisk ocean wind.
I could go on and on, but I have a long day ahead of me tomorrow… I have to start slowing down for bed, somehow!
Well, a little less than 10 minutes later, I realize that I might feel so pumped right now because of my massive sugar intake today. But that’s not all, really, it’s been a great day. Something I really needed. I’d started out the day a little unfocused, and I’ve been gone from town on a lot of trips in the last month. I’m starting to feel like the settling back in is coming easier, now. Makes me happy. And that’s enough for tonight.